The tone is one of the most important things to keep in mind while phone dating because it can tell you a lot about what a person is trying to communicate outside of words. Flirting with tone is basically putting emphasis on certain words to let the other person know what you’re thinking or in the mood for. This can be a really fun way. You can try being over the top with your tone or you can be subtle.
In-person dating gives you access to the other senses like sight, non-verbal communication, and touch. Yet over the phone, we depend on what we hear. In some ways, this can be a simple way to notice whether someone has an interest in you.
The easiest way to understand tone is simple and that’s to observe others. Think about the conversations you have with phone friends. How do you express that you’re happy or sad? Another way to understand someone’s tone is to ask him though sometimes that may be awkward, it’s the most direct way to find out more about a person. Over time and through active listening and observing, you should be able to tell what people mean. Most of the time, we can understand what people mean organically by being in many situations that call for talking and conversing in our lives. It seems as though people don’t typically take the time to consider what tone can mean but it can be helpful for phone dating.
Since the mobile chat lines are open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, you can practice observing others as often as you want and during the time that works best for you. Just like most things, the more you practice, the more you will find out. Learn more about others and yourself by speaking to new men on the chat lines.
